.Conclusion.

     Of course, to prevent high divorce rate, another program called Family Enriched should put in consideration. As understand even new couple may have gone through several lessons of Pre-Marital Educational Program, after many years of marriage, a lot thing that had learned at the moment become out of date. Therefore, a family Enriched program can act as a supporting system to provide more help to the family. If couple really felt that divorce is the only solution, than an awareness program for divorce might be necessary as to educate divorce how to face their new life after divorce. In addition, it is also important for divorce to  recognize a new life only dealing with the self circus, but also included children and previous bonding.

            Every marriage hits a rough spot occasionally. While not every marriage should be attempted to be salvaged, a great many more that are saved today should and can be though concerted efforts. So, the first step in avoiding divorce is recognizing that the fact that you have come to this point in your relationship is not unusual, but it does indicate that something must be changes if it to survive. But before you go through a mental litany of everything that needs to changes as justification for giving up, realize that there is help out there and if  you are willing to put in the time and commitment, you can make your marriage work even when it seem that your and your partner have reached the end of the road.

Finally, ended our Presentation!!

Guys,

finally we have done our presentation!Yeah~

we have prepared for long time for this presentation.

I want to tell my group members (Maton, Salwa, Ros) here, I love yours acting even there still have some space to improve, well done!

Especially when Maton is arguing with Salwa and also the scene after father get out from home and leave the mother and her little girl with their sadness.  :)

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Why do people divorce? Lee Rosen - Raleigh Divorce Lawyer

hye guys,

here i want to share with you some part of our topic for divorce...hope you all understand what he said..

.Number of Rate For Divorce in Malaysia.

Hello guys..

How are you feeling today? i hope we are ready for our presentation next week, since our blog still not have rate of divorce, here im give a statistic of divorce cases reported in Malaysia. I take the information from the News Strait Times paper, and here i give the link to you refer it http://www.nst.com.my/nst/articles/06mar1/Article/ date on 11th September 2010 , and i think this is the latest one, but if you guys get the latest than this, just put it here. 

So, here the rates of statistic In 2002, for every 9.6 marriages registered, there was one divorce. Last year, in every 6.1, there was one.
 Researcher John Emmanuel Kiat said while the number of marriages had increased by 21 per cent (153,318 to 199,586) from 2002 to last year, the number of divorces had gone up by as much as 105 per cent (16,013 to 32,763) during the same period.

Kiat, a Statistics and Cognition tutor in HELP University College, described the jump as "statistically significant".

"The question is, would you consider this rise big enough to be regarded as a problem?" Dr Anjli Doshi-Gandhi of the National Population and Family Development Board said the rising rates could signify a turn in the public's perception of the marriage institution.

"Those days, being divorced was embarrassing and families lost face. Now, people are more open. Times have changed. "Marriages must be strengthened. We don't want what's happening in developed countries, where divorce rates are very high, to happen here."

The board, she added, counselled 700 to 800 troubled couples a year. Psychologist Charis Wong pointed out the challenges in marriages today.

so, from the number, she said, many couple don't know how to keep and save their marriage but just break it down without thinking first.  

The National Registration Department registered 2,706 divorces among non-Muslims in 2002, which subsequently climbed to 5,647 last year. Between 2006 and last year, the rates mostly stagnated at about 5,000 a year. 

However, seven months into this year, there were already 7,428 cases registered, way higher than years before.

There was an appreciable rise in the number of divorces among Chinese and Indians this year, said Universiti Malaya's Associate Professor Dr Tey Nai Peng.

"The high ratio of divorce over the number of marriages is a cause for concern. The rising rate may be a contributory factor to falling fertility."

As for the Muslims, the Department of Islamic Development recorded 27,116 divorces last year, up from 13,937 in 2002. Over the years, the upward trend has been quite consistent.

The divorce rate was still much higher among Muslims compared with non-Muslims, with the former making up more than 82 per cent of total divorces, said Tey.

noted : from this article, we can see the rate of divorce cases is so high. which is reported  every year and every month, Malaysian  cases of divorce going so faster than they are built to married. 

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.How To Avoid Divorce.

I would like to tell you about "how to avoid of divorce". Avoid of divorce and save of your marriage by taking responsibility with spouse. Realize that your action may have influenced the changed in your marriage. Many couples will drift from each other to hectic work or social schedules and over time when the marriage relationship is neglected the bond that holds the marriage together will weaken. Frustration will cause heated arguments and may escalate thought of divorce may seem like a solution to unhappy marriage.
  

• honesty
• respect
• communication
• love

Make time with spouse to discuss the topics on the list. communicate to resolve the conflict and work together to make the marriage stronger. Discuss difficult topics calmly. Be honest with your spouse and try to compromise each other and work thought your problem. Resolving conflict in your marriage will help to rebuild the bond of trust.

Respect your marriage and work together as a team. Help each other with household and with the upbringing your children. Refrain from putting yourself first. Implement the work please and thanks you when addressing your spouse and speak loudly and are ways to show that love them.

Spend quality time and doing something the activities that both of your enjoy. Discuss life as man and wife, reflect on happy memories and forget about the hardship that weakened your marriage. work together at building a stronger marriage.

Strengthen the family bond by make time to enjoy your spouse with your children. Be present for the famliy meal. Participate in a family game, help with homework, or watch a family movie.

.Effects of Divorce.

After shared article about the factors of divorce, I would like to tell you about what I have read from the article which talking about the effects of divorce. Couples who are divorced are facing some negative effects which are:

Added Responsibilities

Effects On Children

Social Stigma

Legal Matters

Couples who are divorced are also saddled with added responsibilities and roles, particularly with regard to the care of children. Each parent has to be both father and mother to the children. Some mothers may even have to go out and work to maintain their children.

In any marriage break-up, it is the children who are most likely to be affected psychologically. They are the unfortunate victims of the bickerings between parents. Faced with their own problems, parents tend to disregard their children's feelings, thus making the children feel that they are unwanted. If the situation is not handled properly, they may develop a negative attitude towards parents and marriage, as a result of what they see happening in the home. It is usual for couples with marital problems to think more of their own feelings than of their children. They may have the interest of their children at heart, but the children are not to know this. All the children know is that something is terribly wrong, but they have no idea what it is nor can they find the words to describe it.

The social stigma that is usually attached to a divorce is inevitable. These are only some of the difficulties that couples are likely to face upon divorce. While it is true that in many cases a partner in marriage comes to this painful decision because of the irresponsible behaviour of the other partner, it is also true that a divorce may not be the best solution to the problem.

Divorce will bring about changes in the status of a person, from the legal point of view. Among the issues that may pose a problem are:

• more restrictions in owning a HDB flat imposed on a divorced person;
• higher personal income taxes;
• more responsibilities as a single parent;
• legal costs for the divorce proceedings;
• losses may be incurred when parties are forced to sell their flat or to surrender it to HDB;
• further conflict may occur in Court if one party fails to comply with the Order of Court.

.The Most Common Factors of Divorce.

Divorce cases is found in any human society and its existed since the inception of human life. In Malaysia, the high percentage of divorce cases have been there. Based on the statistics, the average of divorce cases in our country is up to 20% per year!!

Do you know what causes divorce cases is keep increasing in Malaysia??

Yes, today, I would like to share some most common factors of this social issue here.

First and foremost, introduce the 3 most common factors of divorce, they are:

Lack of communication!!

money!!

children!!

lack of communication is one of the most common factors of divorce because when two people lack communication, they are unable to solve problems that may occur in the marriage. Many married couples think that the minor problems that occur in their marriage, are insignificant, and are not worth talking about; however, they fail to realize that even the smallest things can cause conflict between the two when they are not able to solve them through communication.

Many people say, “Money is the root of all evil”. Yes! Money can be the root of all problems in the marriage. Why I say so? This is because when one spouse makes all of the financial decisions, and the other spouse does not agree with the decisions that he or she is making, then conflicts can occur between the two of them. This financial responsibility can affect the marriage drastically, when what seemed to be enough for the two, is not enough to provide for a family.

Children require a lot of support from both parents, and when only one parent is working, the amount of support coming in, is sometimes not enough. This situation causes many married couples to argue over financial issues. They also argue over the decisions made for their children, when one of the partners does not agree with the other in certain situations. This causes them to resent each other, and puts the marriage in jeopardy. 


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.Understanding Causes Of Divorce.

hye and hello guys..

Since we have understood what is the definition of divorce, so we are try to identify and understand more information about divorce. So for today, I want to discuss about the causes of divorce..like what I've said in my last comment before this in definition of divorce, the next part is to find why divorce had happened?

Actually,there are many factors or causes why people  get divorce. From the article that I've read, I've found in that article, there are seven factors have been identified as the causes of divorce among couples in the country. Based on what I've read, i found that, the main causes of divorce is low grounding in religion.  

Another reasons why marriages fail or people get divorced are given below:-

1) differences in culture

2) interference by third parties 

3) sexual problems

4) money and careers

5) irresponsible attitude of husband and wives

6) incompatibility and the remainder due to problems of drugs and others

this point that I've listed is taken by Prof Datuk Dr Mafauzy Mohamed said, the Director of USM Kubang Kerian's Faculty of Health. .

if you dont mind, after discussion i can explain it more detail and with your own idea..so, i hope you guys can put the others causes of divorce...because i know there are many factors out there is causes the divorce... or maybe you can contributed this post with your own idea..and  we discuss it later.....

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  What is DIVORCE???       

Hello guys,

Let's discuss....   

DIVORCE (or the dissolution of marriage) is the final termination of a marital union, canceling the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage and dissolving the bonds of matrimony between the parties. Actually, I got that definition from wikipedia. so, it is shows  that divorce is break up that occur in family, who is getting the problem that cannot to be resolved. Otherwise, this is one of the solution that is legal. 

     As we know, this issue rising up every year. It is so many report that was notified. This is also one of hot news that occur among Malay, Chinese and Indians people. There are from workers, celebrities and others. Many reports of these cases that showed in media likes newspaper, magazines, television and radio.      
  

Research Objectives......

Assalamualaikum & Hello Everybody........                                                     

   

 Here, I want to suggest the objectives for our blog project.

1) to study more details on family problem especially about divorce cases.

2) to  find out the factors of this problem.

3) to investigate the statistics of this case.

I hope from my group member will give your respond and opinion..thanks..

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