I would like to tell you about "how to avoid of divorce". Avoid of divorce and save of your marriage by taking responsibility with spouse. Realize that your action may have influenced the changed in your marriage. Many couples will drift from each other to hectic work or social schedules and over time when the marriage relationship is neglected the bond that holds the marriage together will weaken. Frustration will cause heated arguments and may escalate thought of divorce may seem like a solution to unhappy marriage.
- honesty
- respect
- communication
- love
Make time with spouse to discuss the topics on the list. communicate to resolve the conflict and work together to make the marriage stronger. Discuss difficult topics calmly. Be honest with your spouse and try to compromise each other and work thought your problem. Resolving conflict in your marriage will help to rebuild the bond of trust.
Respect your marriage and work together as a team. Help each other with household and with the upbringing your children. Refrain from putting yourself first. Implement the work please and thanks you when addressing your spouse and speak loudly and are ways to show that love them.
Spend quality time and doing something the activities that both of your enjoy. Discuss life as man and wife, reflect on happy memories and forget about the hardship that weakened your marriage. work together at building a stronger marriage.
Strengthen the family bond by make time to enjoy your spouse with your children. Be present for the famliy meal. Participate in a family game, help with homework, or watch a family movie.
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thanks ros, so, can i put this in the report?
Thanks,Ros
Many people have an idealistic view of marriage and are often "blind-sided" by the problems that lead to divorce.
Thus,someone married must consider their first year of marriage over:
1.)money management
2.)time with each other
3.)expectations
4.)her/his family and so on.
These warning signs can be a signal that a relationship may be vulnerable to separation and divorce. Many of the warning signs could have been noticed while couples were seriously dating or engaged.
Here i want to share about how to avoid divorce...
Marriage counseling can be a very effective instrument in putting a marriage that seems to be going down the divorce path back onto the right track. Counseling can help marriage couple to solve their problem with a little help from professional counselor trained in mediation.
yes, i agree both of you...here i give the other tips on how to avoid divorce :
1. A person always has the option to choose the person that could be right for him. It could be better if the person has the same perspectives and beliefs. This could lessen any irreconcilable differences that would lead to divorce.
2. spent more time with their family for some time. couples must take one time to spent with her partner, maybe at this time, they can communicate each other or doing some activity together. it also can make their relationship stronger.
3. Learn how to accept any disappointments and failures in the relationship. It can sometimes help when the couple knows all their limitations and imperfections in the marriage. Expressing anger is only normal but they need to make sure that it would only take a little time to release that kind of emotion.
that's true..same with my article..
besides that, i think when one spouse show what her/him feel, it can be more better..sometimes, they do not know what the other person want..so, the way is you must show it..due to that, the other person will understand that.
from my information is, every spouse must always show their love..for example..send text message to their couple, such as "i love you"..that's enough to built their feel...
as we know, nowadays every spouse work to survive their life..it can be busy..so, the best and easy way is just send a text message..
am i right?
yes..i agree with that...
just text a message or make a phone call when they have a free time...
likes people says: 'BETTER LATE THAN NEVER...:)
actually there are many ways on how to save the marriage...
as an example..why not try to give him/her a gift or present to show your love..and if you accept it..don't say anything even you don't like it.. value on what he/her give to you..
hai guys.... i have another point about how to divorce....
Focus On Your Early Years
This is huge. If you can get back to that center, you can begin to solve problems and conflicts which have arisen. There was a reason you got married, a sensual, pleasurable and loving reason that you felt the urge to form this union. Remember the person you married and remember, that same person is in there somewhere. We all naturally grow into "other people", but we all maintain our core; that part that was so strong that forming a life long union was a highly desirable action to take. Focus back on your early years and think about getting those good, original and pure times back.
ros, i'm not clear. but i try to understand that..is it try back to the past??that means recall why someone get marry??i'm so sorry...hope you can explain to me..
yes..me too maton, i'm not clear what ros are going to tell..maybe you can explain it for simple example?
tq..:)
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