What is DIVORCE??? Hello guys,
Let's discuss....
DIVORCE (or the dissolution of marriage) is the final termination of a marital union, canceling the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage and dissolving the bonds of matrimony between the parties. Actually, I got that definition from wikipedia. so, it is shows that divorce is break up that occur in family, who is getting the problem that cannot to be resolved. Otherwise, this is one of the solution that is legal.
As we know, this issue rising up every year. It is so many report that was notified. This is also one of hot news that occur among Malay, Chinese and Indians people. There are from workers, celebrities and others. Many reports of these cases that showed in media likes newspaper, magazines, television and radio.
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i also agreed with you maton for your post that you tell us this issue rising up every year..actually many of us know that divorce was not a social norm in Malaysian traditional family, unfortunately, today especially in new millennium, this has seemed like a social trend to Malaysian and i think it just not only in Malaysia that is many cases was reported but for others country also have the same problem...that is many cases of this problem was reported..so what we must to do is, to know first how divorce can happen and who are usually happened it..
hi guys...
salwa,actually i post this one about what i had been read.so, i want to share and discuss with you guys about that..exactly..i agree with you that we must explain more than that...i will try search any information from any article to put here..otherwise, you can put also the other information here.then, we can discuss about that..tq..
as what i had read from book,divorce basically means the terminaton of marriage, in most cases certified by a court of law, so that the previous marriage is dissolved. Each of the parties then has a fulfill certain responsibilities,from children to property.
In fact,some of us have blamed religion and culture for the rising cases of divorce.Yet,whatever is to blame,divorce is often seen as a source of shame. Especially in our country's culture is still considered as not 'open minded'culture compared to western country.
HI and hello guys!! :)
today i want to continue our discussion..by the way...I agreed with both of you..and I think what are we must to focus and specific in this topic is about Malaysian people..that means..in my opinion..
1)try to find out what the situation divorce in Malaysia..and the different with others countries..maybe its seems difficult..but i just give my point and my opinion..maybe we just put the percent of people who are getting divorce in other countries..
in the other hand, focus in Malaysia, like the divorce usually happened on who? like maton said, workers, celebrities, young people, and others..
2)how divorce had happened in Malaysia,
3)why divorce had happened or what the causes of divorce
4)what are some impacts that will influence to their family
5)try to find the solution or the way how to solve this problem
thats all from my opinion..hope you guys respond me..and my pleasure if we can more active for this discussion..if i had mistake in this comment, please tell me..thank you...:)
for me, divorce is not too bad for certain cases..many cases was reported at newspaper..like mother get abuse from her husband and also her children..due to that, divorce is the good way to herself and family..
do you guys agree with me?
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what's your opinion/thinking about divorce??
I totally agree that most divorce case happened because of money. For example my case. I failed in my business and incur debts for myself and for my wife. Both of us argued. She wants a divorce but i refuse. She told me if do not want a divorce to happen assign all my properties to her. After doing that she ran away, dumped the kids to me and now wanted a divorce. She even hit me and accidentally hit my son. She went to the police station and lodge a report that I hit her. Luckily enough my kids became the witness because they saw what actually happen.
So guys? How?? What do you guys think?
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first of all..when i read your comment..i feel sympathy with whats going on in your family..
what you have to be..try to calm first..and think on your kids future..in the same time..try to spend a time with your wife and face to face with her and tell her about your problems and situations..if you still love her..you can do your best to save your marriage right? but if conditions too tangled..i think you must do a report to demanding rights that you not guilty..this only my opinion..hope that you be strong..
how about you guys?
hello james...
so, the conclusion is...there is a silver lining for what happened to you. when you've in trouble, your wife leave you. if she really love you, she will be together with you and your family in the sweet time and in trouble time. this obviously shown how bad is her attitude.
in my opinion, you should be patient and accept all this. the most important is take care yourself and your kids. don't let them alone and don't show your sadness to them..be strong...
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i agree with salwa about james problem...
i hope james can solve marriage problem....
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