.Conclusion.

     Of course, to prevent high divorce rate, another program called Family Enriched should put in consideration. As understand even new couple may have gone through several lessons of Pre-Marital Educational Program, after many years of marriage, a lot thing that had learned at the moment become out of date. Therefore, a family Enriched program can act as a supporting system to provide more help to the family. If couple really felt that divorce is the only solution, than an awareness program for divorce might be necessary as to educate divorce how to face their new life after divorce. In addition, it is also important for divorce to  recognize a new life only dealing with the self circus, but also included children and previous bonding.

            Every marriage hits a rough spot occasionally. While not every marriage should be attempted to be salvaged, a great many more that are saved today should and can be though concerted efforts. So, the first step in avoiding divorce is recognizing that the fact that you have come to this point in your relationship is not unusual, but it does indicate that something must be changes if it to survive. But before you go through a mental litany of everything that needs to changes as justification for giving up, realize that there is help out there and if  you are willing to put in the time and commitment, you can make your marriage work even when it seem that your and your partner have reached the end of the road.

Finally, ended our Presentation!!

Guys,

finally we have done our presentation!Yeah~

we have prepared for long time for this presentation.

I want to tell my group members (Maton, Salwa, Ros) here, I love yours acting even there still have some space to improve, well done!

Especially when Maton is arguing with Salwa and also the scene after father get out from home and leave the mother and her little girl with their sadness.  :)

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Why do people divorce? Lee Rosen - Raleigh Divorce Lawyer

hye guys,

here i want to share with you some part of our topic for divorce...hope you all understand what he said..

.Number of Rate For Divorce in Malaysia.

Hello guys..

How are you feeling today? i hope we are ready for our presentation next week, since our blog still not have rate of divorce, here im give a statistic of divorce cases reported in Malaysia. I take the information from the News Strait Times paper, and here i give the link to you refer it http://www.nst.com.my/nst/articles/06mar1/Article/ date on 11th September 2010 , and i think this is the latest one, but if you guys get the latest than this, just put it here. 

So, here the rates of statistic In 2002, for every 9.6 marriages registered, there was one divorce. Last year, in every 6.1, there was one.
 Researcher John Emmanuel Kiat said while the number of marriages had increased by 21 per cent (153,318 to 199,586) from 2002 to last year, the number of divorces had gone up by as much as 105 per cent (16,013 to 32,763) during the same period.

Kiat, a Statistics and Cognition tutor in HELP University College, described the jump as "statistically significant".

"The question is, would you consider this rise big enough to be regarded as a problem?" Dr Anjli Doshi-Gandhi of the National Population and Family Development Board said the rising rates could signify a turn in the public's perception of the marriage institution.

"Those days, being divorced was embarrassing and families lost face. Now, people are more open. Times have changed. "Marriages must be strengthened. We don't want what's happening in developed countries, where divorce rates are very high, to happen here."

The board, she added, counselled 700 to 800 troubled couples a year. Psychologist Charis Wong pointed out the challenges in marriages today.

so, from the number, she said, many couple don't know how to keep and save their marriage but just break it down without thinking first.  

The National Registration Department registered 2,706 divorces among non-Muslims in 2002, which subsequently climbed to 5,647 last year. Between 2006 and last year, the rates mostly stagnated at about 5,000 a year. 

However, seven months into this year, there were already 7,428 cases registered, way higher than years before.

There was an appreciable rise in the number of divorces among Chinese and Indians this year, said Universiti Malaya's Associate Professor Dr Tey Nai Peng.

"The high ratio of divorce over the number of marriages is a cause for concern. The rising rate may be a contributory factor to falling fertility."

As for the Muslims, the Department of Islamic Development recorded 27,116 divorces last year, up from 13,937 in 2002. Over the years, the upward trend has been quite consistent.

The divorce rate was still much higher among Muslims compared with non-Muslims, with the former making up more than 82 per cent of total divorces, said Tey.

noted : from this article, we can see the rate of divorce cases is so high. which is reported  every year and every month, Malaysian  cases of divorce going so faster than they are built to married. 

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.How To Avoid Divorce.

I would like to tell you about "how to avoid of divorce". Avoid of divorce and save of your marriage by taking responsibility with spouse. Realize that your action may have influenced the changed in your marriage. Many couples will drift from each other to hectic work or social schedules and over time when the marriage relationship is neglected the bond that holds the marriage together will weaken. Frustration will cause heated arguments and may escalate thought of divorce may seem like a solution to unhappy marriage.
  

• honesty
• respect
• communication
• love

Make time with spouse to discuss the topics on the list. communicate to resolve the conflict and work together to make the marriage stronger. Discuss difficult topics calmly. Be honest with your spouse and try to compromise each other and work thought your problem. Resolving conflict in your marriage will help to rebuild the bond of trust.

Respect your marriage and work together as a team. Help each other with household and with the upbringing your children. Refrain from putting yourself first. Implement the work please and thanks you when addressing your spouse and speak loudly and are ways to show that love them.

Spend quality time and doing something the activities that both of your enjoy. Discuss life as man and wife, reflect on happy memories and forget about the hardship that weakened your marriage. work together at building a stronger marriage.

Strengthen the family bond by make time to enjoy your spouse with your children. Be present for the famliy meal. Participate in a family game, help with homework, or watch a family movie.